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Someone honest first and foremost, she has to be attractive physically which goes without saying I think its fair to say looks do matter to pretty much everyone initially though I am not looking necessarily for Kirsty Gallacher's twin sister! ; ), loyal, friendly, sense of humour is always good obviously thats about it really...The main things that turn me off are an ego or an attitude problem and dishonesty in that case it doesnt matter if you're miss world there have to be standards..of behaviour ; ) hahaFinally someone with a glass half full attitude would be good too and someone who realises the grass isn't always greener and life is what you make it.