I have Asperger's Syndrome but it doesn't totally define me..I've been fighting it and-often-overcoming it all my life. If men come from Mars, and women from Venus, at times I feel as if I come from saturn! I'm very old-fashioned in some ways (I've never owned a track-suit or a pair of trainers) yet I consider a lot of younger people the old-fashioned ones and I have a quirky, almost surreal SOH. I'm an animal lover (especially fond of my cat Sylvester).I love old things,at my happiest wandering through the ruins of old castles and abbeys,yet I love science-fiction and ideas about the future.I'm sometimes as timid as a mouse but I like to do the odd bungee jump.I like classical music from Mozart to Prokofiev,and also Rock/Dance.My life has mainly been one of celibacy for a long time now, for obvious reasons,but despite this (or because of it) I'm still very interested in intimacy, so I'm very broad-minded in these matters-you know what that means! My religous beliefs are eclectic, a probably contradictory mixture of Christian and Pagan. I think I'm a good listener and a good friend.If all this sounds as if I'm a bit weird and introverted and fogey-ish,well thats true to degree,but beneath that bespectacled,shy exterior is a passionate,intrepid man. I spent a lot of my life in obscure pursuits so I want to make up for those lost years now. Please reply..I'd prefer at "go away and don't call again" to silence. So, please have a look, I don't want to end up like Krapp in "Krapp's Last Tape"-if you know what I mean