Not sure whether to message someone or not? Send them a 'Flirt' first to test the water. If they 'Flirt back' then you know they're interested! So you can start messaging them.
I would like to met a guy who is open, honest and someone I can talk too and have a laugh with. You don't have to be Mr.Perfect, but if you can put a flat pack from IKEA together, that would be an advantage :-)