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Most importantly I would to meet someone nice and has good sense of humour, is Honest, intelligent, romantic, attractive, independent, sarcastic, confident, does not take life too seriously, romantic, passionate and trustworthy, moderately unstable/cracked (so she can cope with me), but no bunny boilers please. Is taller than Yoda, smaller than Chewbacca and has less body hair, hates clubbing and does not smoke. Has all her own teeth and does not keep them in a jar on her bedside locker at night time. Enjoys movies, music, dogs, walking and outdoor type things and generally enjoys life, and is not compelled to spend every weekend in the pub.