Not sure whether to message someone or not? Send them a 'Flirt' first to test the water. If they 'Flirt back' then you know they're interested! So you can start messaging them.
a good humoured sensitive lady, tactile is nice who, if can sing and has long hair (not a condition but i find very attractive) i will be putty in her hands, spontaneous, someone who also likes to have a life outside of work after the bills are paid. i do find it flattering if, now in 2010 a lady says what she thinks and asks me out! .good chemistry can make a day feel like 5 minutes of great fun, looking for a date(s) but with right person ive set no limits.