Why do Good Girls like Bad Boys?
Some women appear to have it all -great job, look fab, really have their act together, but when it comes to men, they just seem to attract the very worst of the worst. Is it that they find it a challenge, or exciting? Or are they just unlucky in love? Well I trawled the net to see what others thought and there were a few theories on it some of them off the wall but others did try to make sense of this strange phenomenon. Have a look at what they had to say and give us your own theories on it http://simplyanne.wordpress.com/2006/08/09/why-do-bad-boys-want-good-girls/
http://shootthemoose.wordpress.com/2005/01/19/why-do-good-girls-like-bad-boys/
Of course sometimes it's just great fun to go out with a bad boy for a while - its not that you are ever going to make it a permanent thing its just a phase that is enjoyable and where's the harm in that?
But what to the boys think. Because maybe they are hoping that you will be the one to calm them down and change their wicked ways and all you're doing is having fun at their expense.
Let me know what you think and if you think it's more or less prevelant on dating websites? The best comment on the blog this week wins a free months membership on Maybefriends.com
http://shootthemoose.wordpress.com/2005/01/19/why-do-good-girls-like-bad-boys/
Of course sometimes it's just great fun to go out with a bad boy for a while - its not that you are ever going to make it a permanent thing its just a phase that is enjoyable and where's the harm in that?
But what to the boys think. Because maybe they are hoping that you will be the one to calm them down and change their wicked ways and all you're doing is having fun at their expense.
Let me know what you think and if you think it's more or less prevelant on dating websites? The best comment on the blog this week wins a free months membership on Maybefriends.com
Labels: bad boys, dating, good girls, Irish, Online
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3 Comments:
ok, i have what may be a controversial theory on this...so feel free to argue! i think that most of us ladies, in our formative years...fell for a bad boy, and if we didn't, we yearned for it. i think once you've been there, it actually beomes the 'safer' option. if you're with a bad boy, it's predictable - you know you're going to get hurt, you just don't know when. with nice men though, if you give it a try, and you get hurt nonetheless (and it happens because people are people, it doesn't make either person bad) it's far more devastating than if you were hurt by a 'bad boy'. If you are 'hurt' by a genuinely good man, you have less of a riposte, you can't say he's an 'a%$**$le, because you know he's now. With a bad boy, you can take the 'I told you so's', get mad and move on, safe in the knowledge you knew it was gonna happen anyway (even though you con yourself it'll be different for you). That's my 2 cents...what do you think???
excuse the typos guys, I'm sure you have a fair idea of what I was attempting to say!
Very true Cadence. I also think though that it is a sign that the girl is not really ready for a loving relationship, despite any and all of her claims to the contrary.
I'm currently a "nice guy" that is interested in a girl that is all twisted up over a "bad boy". I know I'd be predictable and "safe", thus "boring". I don't get the whole "boring" angle though. If it were not for a medicine I take for blood clotting, I'd be willing to do "adventurous things". I wouldn't mind owning a motorcycle, but again, it's too dangerous due to my medical issues, as an injury can cause me to bleed to death internally.
My parents, who have been married for 44 years now, never were into all the wild and crazy stuff, so I know that relationships built upon less dangerous / "exciting" activities can work for the long term. It just seems that women from age 18 to around 45 that are "single" have been conditioned into this idea that "safety" is "boring", and who wants "boring"?
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